tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post8288191520290158606..comments2024-01-26T09:29:04.765-08:00Comments on My American Meltingpot: Black and Italian, Black and Mexican...Interracial Relationships Go GlobalProfessor Tharpshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04714326142739366426noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-63844177847560186812013-04-23T17:28:04.471-07:002013-04-23T17:28:04.471-07:00hi... I think all of u live in USA... and most of ...hi... I think all of u live in USA... and most of you are married with people who where raised also in USA... Im a mexican, who lives in mexico and was raised here, and i met an african that was also raised in africa and we're kind of in a relationship but we're taking things slowly. he's really amazing i really like him, but im afraid because we don't know each other countries, and our cultures in a deep way. Also we don't speak the same language, I can speak english but it's quite bad, and there are somethings that i don't get. I'm also afraid of moving to his country and not finding any job. Do u know any couple like us? But that is already married :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-29550424002091107662011-03-19T20:47:22.707-07:002011-03-19T20:47:22.707-07:00I am a mexican female. I have been in a relations...I am a mexican female. I have been in a relationship with a black man for almost 10 years and we have 2 beautiful children. At first i didnt think that my family would approve even though we lived in a predominantly black nieghborhood. We live fort worth texas and there are so many mix couples. We see mainly.black and mexican but there are many black women with mexican men,white women with mexican men, black men with white women,white men with oriental women etc. Some people do stare but its so common now that its not a big surprise when you see it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-24580696118109343142011-02-21T21:58:12.372-08:002011-02-21T21:58:12.372-08:00I know where Italy is, I know where Mexico is but ...I know where Italy is, I know where Mexico is but where is black?nationhttp://nore0326@gmail.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-58566939416799721502010-09-26T17:44:41.438-07:002010-09-26T17:44:41.438-07:00As a black American born and raised in Los Angeles...As a black American born and raised in Los Angeles...I can say that a lot of that hype concerning Blacks and Latinos in LA is just that...hype. They act like we don't mix, hang out, socialize. Please. I've been in MANY situations where I was the ONLY non-Latino and I had no problems. On a casual level you don't see that hostility. Old Mexican woman do not cross the street out of fear when a group of "black thugs" is coming in the opposite direction. A LOT of that perceived hostility from Mexicans (and Latinos) can be immediately disabled through language. <br /><br />I speak Spanish and I notice how that changes the dynamic of a situation once the other person knows this. They love playing the guessing game of where my mother country is and I impress them about my knowledge and adventures in Latin America.<br /><br />I'm in my mid 20s and I remember in high school it was no big deal for a black guy to have a latino girlfriend. In fact, it was embraced. And growing up we saw several latino guy/black girl relationships. And NO ONE who was of mixed ancestry was ever teased because of that. Ever. And I'm from LA, not Woodland Hills or Orange County. <br /><br />Also, many Mexicans have African blood. Someone already mentioned the "third root". There was this guy I met from Mexico, an Aztec dancer. He told me in his culture they are taught, according to history, that their people were waiting for Blacks to come. It was some prophecy. And it was going to be something very positive. Instead, white settlers showed up and they knew it was bad.Hassanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05636875279666687230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-35520364127889712452010-04-14T22:22:23.836-07:002010-04-14T22:22:23.836-07:00Mexicans/Mexican-Americans are VERY different than...Mexicans/Mexican-Americans are VERY different than Puerto Ricans and Cubans when it comes to relations with blacks/Africans. This is probably due to the fact that Puerto Ricans and Cubans have African blood; and Mexicans do not. <br /><br />Puerto Ricans and Cubans are a mixture of Spanish and African (some more Spanish, some more African). On the other hand, Mexicans are a mixture of Spanish and Ameridian Indian (some more Spanish, some more Indian, but most are 50-50 or 'Mestizo'. <br /><br />Mexicans tend to believe that dating/marrying an African is degrading and/or disgusting. They tend to view Africans as 'lesser' with regard to work ethic,<br />intelligence, and beauty. While Puerto Ricans and Cubans see Africans as part of their own 'family', which in a sense is true. All making for easier relations between Puerto Ricans/Cubans and Africans.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-39799781068954397532010-03-31T06:44:01.858-07:002010-03-31T06:44:01.858-07:00AC,
I love Mississippi Masala too. I checked out y...AC,<br />I love Mississippi Masala too. I checked out your blog. Keep up the good work. <br /><br />Rose,<br />That book sounds like a great resource. Thanks.Professor Tharpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04714326142739366426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-17539833891636686212010-03-29T15:24:08.121-07:002010-03-29T15:24:08.121-07:00I must admit after I read your blog post, I felt c...I must admit after I read your blog post, I felt compelled to say I agree with you on how the media should provide us "options" in viewing different types of relationships! :) I have been in an interracial marriage going on 3 years now (I'm an African Christian raised in the US and my hubby is an American Jew). Talk about a lot of explaining to do during the relationship :)<br /><br />There's a book I read a few years ago that I found helpful in thinking about how to deal with our different religions, languages, and cultures in my relationship and make it a success. The author has worked with many different kinds couples beyond Black/White. The book is called Mixed Matches: How to Create Successful Interracial, Interethnic, and Interfaith Relationships by Joel Crohn. This book doesn't provide all the answers but it's a start...<br /><br />Thanks for posting this!Rosenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-66125237172419850612010-03-26T08:06:18.596-07:002010-03-26T08:06:18.596-07:00I recently saw In the Heights when it came to Clev...I recently saw In the Heights when it came to Cleveland back in February. It is a musical with predominantly Latino characters, however, one of the main cast members was a Black guy who was the love interest of one of the young Latina women. They fall in love and the play/musical ends on a very positive note. Don't know if anyone else has seen In the Heights, but it's one of the best productions I've seen! I'm curious about "Our Family Wedding" and I understand that it's a comedy, but I would just like to see a movie about an interracial couple that doesn't (from my perception) make something comical out of it or, in some other interracial couple movies, make it a tragedy or scary drama. One of my favorites is Mississippi Masala.AnaCelestehttp://anaceleste-letsrace.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-61720659877873781152010-03-26T06:34:23.849-07:002010-03-26T06:34:23.849-07:00Ragazza,
I don't get it either. (sigh)
KC,
Wo...Ragazza,<br />I don't get it either. (sigh)<br /><br />KC,<br />Wow, your life sounds like my kids', except in French. It's so good to hear from you. Thanks for sharing.<br /><br />Lovelyn,<br />Yes, really it's so much deeper than skin. People might only see Black & White, but the cultural differences are the real issue. I bet you guys argue all the time about what a biscuit really is.<br /><br />Evelyn,<br />Thanks for the White walk-ons recap. Now I remember. But really, they were all background characters weren't they?<br /><br />Anon,<br />Thanks for sharing and thanks for the tips on the websites. I know some of them and will def. check the other ones out.Professor Tharpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04714326142739366426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-44019326680129499142010-03-25T16:48:26.074-07:002010-03-25T16:48:26.074-07:00Although I'm not in any relationships at this ...Although I'm not in any relationships at this time, I have seen my fare share of mixed couples. Black/White,as a kid I remembered seeing more Asian/Black relationships( my pops has a biracial child in Vietnam), my sisters best friend is married to a Puerto Rican American ( He isn't Black) and my cousin was involved with a Samoan woman. As a Southerner(Georgia), It's assumed that we live segregated lives. I cannot say about what's up in other Southern states, but in my state I have seen and continue to see my fair share of them. <br /><br />Far as websites, I have come across and admired the following: A Journey In Black/Indian Love,BlasianBaby Notes ,Blaxxican,BlindianNetwork,TheInternational Couples Homepage( I don't know the page is still up although the material on there hasn't been updated for a while) . There are many more that I have looked at but there would probably be no room for all of them to be on here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-17685628699516268152010-03-24T15:34:54.702-07:002010-03-24T15:34:54.702-07:00I saw the movie. Remember the scene in the restaur...I saw the movie. Remember the scene in the restaurant? There were white people in there. Also, one of Forest Whitaker's flings was white. Probably some of the girls in the club were too.evelyn.n.alfredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08171703688316482928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-8246752556879040802010-03-24T12:44:05.449-07:002010-03-24T12:44:05.449-07:00I was interested in seeing that movie until I saw ...I was interested in seeing that movie until I saw the trailer. The scene with the goat that you mentioned in in the trailer. After seeing that I decided the movie would probably be stupid.<br /><br />I'm African-American and my husband is English. Though we both speak the same language it's different versions of it. Even though I once thought of English culture as basically the same as American culture their are a few differences that we have to navigate.Lovelynhttp://nebulousmooch.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-69222510918553512892010-03-24T12:10:14.265-07:002010-03-24T12:10:14.265-07:00I have not seen the movie but was quite curious ab...I have not seen the movie but was quite curious about it. But on the topic of interracial/ bi-cultural couples - I was reminded of my parents who have been married for 3o years (my mother is African-American and my father is French). We shuttled/ lived between two countries for most of my childhood existence. It is true to say that things become so much more complex when you are not only two different races but from two different nationalities all together. Our holiday dinners went from escargots to collard greens to French cheeses to baked mac n cheese. Interesting combinations left you full with the feeling of home. Thanks for posting this!!Kiffe Coco.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11379354813010620373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-50934200484178245102010-03-24T12:06:04.452-07:002010-03-24T12:06:04.452-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Kiffe Coco.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11379354813010620373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25806438.post-12501379228995995932010-03-24T09:21:09.642-07:002010-03-24T09:21:09.642-07:00I haven't seen the movie. However, I do agree...I haven't seen the movie. However, I do agree with what one of the black execs at the studio said. In NYC (where she's from) you see a lot of mixing between the two cultures. Of course there are many Black and Latino people (from the Caribbean) who are both. <br /><br />In L.A. this is not the case.<br /><br />I was shocked to see and feel the huge divide between African-Americans and Mexicans. There's the gang situation but also something else going on. I don't understand it.nyc/caribbean ragazzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09370358466131415888noreply@blogger.com